I want to try to get a better feel for everyone’s background and where y’all are today spiritually and emotionally – especially those who are regular readers of my blog. It would be SUPER helpful if you have a few minutes to answer these survey questions.
I would like for JUST the SINGLE LADIES to answer this survey.
(I have a survey for the MARRIED LADIES on my site www.peacefulwife.com this week if the married women would like to participate.) I so appreciate your time!
Much love to each of you!
Are you currently in a committed relationship with a man?
- No (73%, 43 Votes)
- Yes (15%, 9 Votes)
- It's complicated (10%, 6 Votes)
- I'm married (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 59

Have you ever attempted suicide?
- No (84%, 48 Votes)
- Yes (9%, 5 Votes)
- Other (7%, 4 Votes)
Total Voters: 57

Was there physical abuse in your home when you were growing up? (hitting, beating, causing injury, bleeding, or bruises)
- No (69%, 40 Votes)
- Yes (24%, 14 Votes)
- Other (7%, 4 Votes)
Total Voters: 58

Have you ever pushed, hit, shoved, or purposely tried to hurt a man in anger?
- No (69%, 40 Votes)
- Yes (26%, 15 Votes)
- Other (5%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 58

Has a man you loved ever hit, punched, shoved, or tried to physically hurt you?
- No (67%, 38 Votes)
- Yes (30%, 17 Votes)
- Other (4%, 2 Votes)
Total Voters: 57

Has a man you loved ever threatened or attempted suicide while in a relationship with you?
- No (91%, 51 Votes)
- Yes (7%, 4 Votes)
- Other (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 56

Have you ever screamed at a man you love in uncontrollable rage? (not just raised your voice, but screamed)
- No (67%, 38 Votes)
- Yes (32%, 18 Votes)
- Other (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 57

Have you been involved in a romantic relationship where there was violence (one or both of you purposely injured the other person)?
- No (76%, 41 Votes)
- Yes (19%, 10 Votes)
- Other (6%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 54

Were you ever forced into oral sex or sex by a man?
- No (80%, 43 Votes)
- Yes (15%, 8 Votes)
- Other (6%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 54

Have you ever been involved in self-harm (like cutting)?
- No (80%, 43 Votes)
- Yes (17%, 9 Votes)
- Other (4%, 2 Votes)
Total Voters: 54

Do you have any active addictions to alcohol, prescription meds, drugs, or gambling?
- No (98%, 52 Votes)
- Other (2%, 1 Votes)
- Yes (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 53

Have you ever dated a man with active addictions to alcohol, drugs, or gambling?
- No (85%, 44 Votes)
- Yes (15%, 8 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 52

Are you currently divorced?
- No (80%, 43 Votes)
- Yes (20%, 11 Votes)
- Separated (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 54

Have you ever had an abortion?
- No (85%, 45 Votes)
- Yes (15%, 8 Votes)
Total Voters: 53

Do you live for Christ daily?
- Yes (74%, 39 Votes)
- I'm not sure (19%, 10 Votes)
- No (8%, 4 Votes)
Total Voters: 53

Do you believe you have a problem with rage currently? (not just anger, but out of control rage)
- No (94%, 49 Votes)
- Yes (6%, 3 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 52

Have you ever been involved with a man with whom you believed you were not physically safe?
- No (75%, 39 Votes)
- Yes (25%, 13 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 52

Has a man ever physically been unsafe around you because you tried to hurt him physically?
- No (96%, 48 Votes)
- Yes (2%, 1 Votes)
- Other (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 50

Have you ever caused property damage in your anger?
- No (88%, 43 Votes)
- Yes (12%, 6 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 49

When is the last time there was violence in a romantic relationship you were involved in?
- Never (59%, 30 Votes)
- Years ago (35%, 18 Votes)
- Within the last year (4%, 2 Votes)
- Within the last month (2%, 1 Votes)
- Within the last 6 months (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 51

Have you ever dated a man who doesn't live for Christ?
- Yes - years ago (52%, 26 Votes)
- Never (34%, 17 Votes)
- Yes - within the last year (6%, 3 Votes)
- Yes - currently (4%, 2 Votes)
- Yes- within the last 6 months (2%, 1 Votes)
- Yes - within the last month (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 50

Have you ever had oral sex with a man to whom you were not officially married?
- Yes (57%, 29 Votes)
- No (41%, 21 Votes)
- Other (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 51

Have you ever had sexual intercourse with a man to whom you were not officially married?
- Yes (50%, 26 Votes)
- No (50%, 26 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 52

(Reminder this survey is only for ladies who are NOT currently married) - When is the last time you had sex or oral sex?
- Never (41%, 22 Votes)
- Years ago (24%, 13 Votes)
- Within the last 6 months (17%, 9 Votes)
- Within the last week (7%, 4 Votes)
- Within the last year (6%, 3 Votes)
- Within the last month (6%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 54

How committed are you currently to the idea of chastity (reserving sexual activity for marriage)?
- Extremely committed (71%, 37 Votes)
- Somewhat committed (21%, 11 Votes)
- Not very committed (6%, 3 Votes)
- I have no plans to avoid sexual activity until marriage (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 52

Do you believe a woman can attract a man today without becoming sexually involved outside of marriage?
- Yes (92%, 47 Votes)
- No (4%, 2 Votes)
- Other (4%, 2 Votes)
Total Voters: 51

How often do you attend church?
- More than once a week (49%, 24 Votes)
- Once a week (41%, 20 Votes)
- A few times per month (4%, 2 Votes)
- Once a month (2%, 1 Votes)
- A few times per year (2%, 1 Votes)
- Never (2%, 1 Votes)
- Once a year (0%, 0 Votes)
- It is not safe in my country to go to church (0%, 0 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 49

I would say I know the Bible
- Very well (48%, 23 Votes)
- Somewhat (46%, 22 Votes)
- A little bit (6%, 3 Votes)
- Not at all (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 48

I have a godly woman in my life who mentors me and disciples me in my Christian walk
- Yes (57%, 28 Votes)
- No (37%, 18 Votes)
- Other (6%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 49

I am content in Christ
- Yes (67%, 31 Votes)
- Other (22%, 10 Votes)
- No (11%, 5 Votes)
Total Voters: 46


Have you ever had a voluntary sexual relationship with another woman?
- No (88%, 46 Votes)
- Other (8%, 4 Votes)
- Yes (4%, 2 Votes)
- I was sexually molested/abused by a woman (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 52

When is the last time you had a romantic relationship with another woman?
- Never (90%, 45 Votes)
- Years ago (6%, 3 Votes)
- other (4%, 2 Votes)
- Within the last year (0%, 0 Votes)
- Within the last month (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 50

Do you support the idea of couples living together without being married?
- No (92%, 45 Votes)
- Yes (4%, 2 Votes)
- Other (4%, 2 Votes)
Total Voters: 49

Do you believe that homosexual or bisexual relationships are a good thing if people want to engage in them and they feel happy?
- No (90%, 43 Votes)
- Other (8%, 4 Votes)
- Yes (2%, 1 Votes)
Total Voters: 48


Do you believe that children are a blessing in marriage or more of a burden?
- They are a blessing and a lot of work (51%, 24 Votes)
- They are very much a blessing (47%, 22 Votes)
- They are a large burden (2%, 1 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 47

Have you been in a relationship where someone threatened physical harm against the other?
- I have never been in a romantic relationship where there was any threat of physical harm (74%, 31 Votes)
- He threatened to hurt me physically (21%, 9 Votes)
- Both of us threatened to hurt each other physically (5%, 2 Votes)
- I threatened to hurt him physically (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 42

Have you ever been in a relationship where you were screamed at by a man (in uncontrollable rage)?
- No - I have never been screamed at by a man (41%, 17 Votes)
- Yes - a boyfriend/fiance did this (34%, 14 Votes)
- Yes - my father did this (24%, 10 Votes)
Total Voters: 41

Have you been in a relationship outside of marriage where there was heavy petting or either of you performed a hand job on the other?
- Yes (66%, 29 Votes)
- No (34%, 15 Votes)
- Other (0%, 0 Votes)
Total Voters: 44
