I want to try to get a better feel for everyone’s background and where y’all are today spiritually and emotionally – especially those who are regular readers of my blog. It would be SUPER helpful if you have a few minutes to answer these survey questions.

I would like for JUST the SINGLE LADIES to answer this survey.

(I have a survey for the MARRIED LADIES on my site www.peacefulwife.com this week if the married women would like to participate.) I so appreciate your time!

Much love to each of you!

Are you currently in a committed relationship with a man?

  • No (73%, 43 Votes)
  • Yes (15%, 9 Votes)
  • It's complicated (10%, 6 Votes)
  • I'm married (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 59

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Have you ever attempted suicide?

  • No (84%, 48 Votes)
  • Yes (9%, 5 Votes)
  • Other (7%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 57

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Was there physical abuse in your home when you were growing up? (hitting, beating, causing injury, bleeding, or bruises)

  • No (69%, 40 Votes)
  • Yes (24%, 14 Votes)
  • Other (7%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 58

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Have you ever pushed, hit, shoved, or purposely tried to hurt a man in anger?

  • No (69%, 40 Votes)
  • Yes (26%, 15 Votes)
  • Other (5%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 58

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Has a man you loved ever hit, punched, shoved, or tried to physically hurt you?

  • No (67%, 38 Votes)
  • Yes (30%, 17 Votes)
  • Other (4%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 57

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Has a man you loved ever threatened or attempted suicide while in a relationship with you?

  • No (91%, 51 Votes)
  • Yes (7%, 4 Votes)
  • Other (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 56

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Have you ever screamed at a man you love in uncontrollable rage? (not just raised your voice, but screamed)

  • No (67%, 38 Votes)
  • Yes (32%, 18 Votes)
  • Other (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 57

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Have you been involved in a romantic relationship where there was violence (one or both of you purposely injured the other person)?

  • No (76%, 41 Votes)
  • Yes (19%, 10 Votes)
  • Other (6%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 54

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Were you ever forced into oral sex or sex by a man?

  • No (80%, 43 Votes)
  • Yes (15%, 8 Votes)
  • Other (6%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 54

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Have you ever been involved in self-harm (like cutting)?

  • No (80%, 43 Votes)
  • Yes (17%, 9 Votes)
  • Other (4%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 54

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Do you have any active addictions to alcohol, prescription meds, drugs, or gambling?

  • No (98%, 52 Votes)
  • Other (2%, 1 Votes)
  • Yes (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 53

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Have you ever dated a man with active addictions to alcohol, drugs, or gambling?

  • No (85%, 44 Votes)
  • Yes (15%, 8 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 52

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Are you currently divorced?

  • No (80%, 43 Votes)
  • Yes (20%, 11 Votes)
  • Separated (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 54

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Have you ever had an abortion?

  • No (85%, 45 Votes)
  • Yes (15%, 8 Votes)

Total Voters: 53

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Do you live for Christ daily?

  • Yes (74%, 39 Votes)
  • I'm not sure (19%, 10 Votes)
  • No (8%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 53

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Do you believe you have a problem with rage currently? (not just anger, but out of control rage)

  • No (94%, 49 Votes)
  • Yes (6%, 3 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 52

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Have you ever been involved with a man with whom you believed you were not physically safe?

  • No (75%, 39 Votes)
  • Yes (25%, 13 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 52

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Has a man ever physically been unsafe around you because you tried to hurt him physically?

  • No (96%, 48 Votes)
  • Yes (2%, 1 Votes)
  • Other (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 50

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Have you ever caused property damage in your anger?

  • No (88%, 43 Votes)
  • Yes (12%, 6 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 49

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When is the last time there was violence in a romantic relationship you were involved in?

  • Never (59%, 30 Votes)
  • Years ago (35%, 18 Votes)
  • Within the last year (4%, 2 Votes)
  • Within the last month (2%, 1 Votes)
  • Within the last 6 months (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 51

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Have you ever dated a man who doesn't live for Christ?

  • Yes - years ago (52%, 26 Votes)
  • Never (34%, 17 Votes)
  • Yes - within the last year (6%, 3 Votes)
  • Yes - currently (4%, 2 Votes)
  • Yes- within the last 6 months (2%, 1 Votes)
  • Yes - within the last month (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 50

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Have you ever had oral sex with a man to whom you were not officially married?

  • Yes (57%, 29 Votes)
  • No (41%, 21 Votes)
  • Other (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 51

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Have you ever had sexual intercourse with a man to whom you were not officially married?

  • Yes (50%, 26 Votes)
  • No (50%, 26 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 52

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(Reminder this survey is only for ladies who are NOT currently married) - When is the last time you had sex or oral sex?

  • Never (41%, 22 Votes)
  • Years ago (24%, 13 Votes)
  • Within the last 6 months (17%, 9 Votes)
  • Within the last week (7%, 4 Votes)
  • Within the last year (6%, 3 Votes)
  • Within the last month (6%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 54

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How committed are you currently to the idea of chastity (reserving sexual activity for marriage)?

  • Extremely committed (71%, 37 Votes)
  • Somewhat committed (21%, 11 Votes)
  • Not very committed (6%, 3 Votes)
  • I have no plans to avoid sexual activity until marriage (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 52

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Do you believe a woman can attract a man today without becoming sexually involved outside of marriage?

  • Yes (92%, 47 Votes)
  • No (4%, 2 Votes)
  • Other (4%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 51

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How often do you attend church?

  • More than once a week (49%, 24 Votes)
  • Once a week (41%, 20 Votes)
  • A few times per month (4%, 2 Votes)
  • Once a month (2%, 1 Votes)
  • A few times per year (2%, 1 Votes)
  • Never (2%, 1 Votes)
  • Once a year (0%, 0 Votes)
  • It is not safe in my country to go to church (0%, 0 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 49

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I would say I know the Bible

  • Very well (48%, 23 Votes)
  • Somewhat (46%, 22 Votes)
  • A little bit (6%, 3 Votes)
  • Not at all (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 48

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I have a godly woman in my life who mentors me and disciples me in my Christian walk

  • Yes (57%, 28 Votes)
  • No (37%, 18 Votes)
  • Other (6%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 49

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I am content in Christ

  • Yes (67%, 31 Votes)
  • Other (22%, 10 Votes)
  • No (11%, 5 Votes)

Total Voters: 46

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I feel desperate to have a man in my life

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Have you ever had a voluntary sexual relationship with another woman?

  • No (88%, 46 Votes)
  • Other (8%, 4 Votes)
  • Yes (4%, 2 Votes)
  • I was sexually molested/abused by a woman (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 52

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When is the last time you had a romantic relationship with another woman?

  • Never (90%, 45 Votes)
  • Years ago (6%, 3 Votes)
  • other (4%, 2 Votes)
  • Within the last year (0%, 0 Votes)
  • Within the last month (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 50

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Do you support the idea of couples living together without being married?

  • No (92%, 45 Votes)
  • Yes (4%, 2 Votes)
  • Other (4%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 49

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Do you believe that homosexual or bisexual relationships are a good thing if people want to engage in them and they feel happy?

  • No (90%, 43 Votes)
  • Other (8%, 4 Votes)
  • Yes (2%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 48

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Do you believe that divorce is a good idea if a couple is not happy?

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Do you believe that children are a blessing in marriage or more of a burden?

  • They are a blessing and a lot of work (51%, 24 Votes)
  • They are very much a blessing (47%, 22 Votes)
  • They are a large burden (2%, 1 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 47

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Have you been in a relationship where someone threatened physical harm against the other?

  • I have never been in a romantic relationship where there was any threat of physical harm (74%, 31 Votes)
  • He threatened to hurt me physically (21%, 9 Votes)
  • Both of us threatened to hurt each other physically (5%, 2 Votes)
  • I threatened to hurt him physically (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 42

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Have you ever been in a relationship where you were screamed at by a man (in uncontrollable rage)?

  • No - I have never been screamed at by a man (41%, 17 Votes)
  • Yes - a boyfriend/fiance did this (34%, 14 Votes)
  • Yes - my father did this (24%, 10 Votes)

Total Voters: 41

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Have you been in a relationship outside of marriage where there was heavy petting or either of you performed a hand job on the other?

  • Yes (66%, 29 Votes)
  • No (34%, 15 Votes)
  • Other (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 44

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