Do God’s Instructions for Wives Apply to Other Sexual Relationships?

Do God’s Instructions for Wives Apply to Other Sexual Relationships?

Photo by Ostap Senyuk on Unsplash I hear from women every so often who want to try to apply biblical marriage principles – like God’s directives for wives – to sexual relationships that are outside of God’s design for marriage between one man...
Curing My Desire to Control – Part 1

Curing My Desire to Control – Part 1

Photo by Pro Church Media on Unsplash Last week I shared about how we can develop a compulsion to control other people, situations, and the Lord in this post. I thought I “had to try to control” other people and situations. I truly believed it was my...
The Painful Past Behind a Compulsion to Control

The Painful Past Behind a Compulsion to Control

In my experience with women who feel they have to be in control of situations and other people, there is usually some level of trauma or hurt in her past. The level of trauma can vary. But usually something happened that caused her, as a young girl, to develop the...
“I Want to Be Married. I Am SO Lonely!”

“I Want to Be Married. I Am SO Lonely!”

Photo by David Marcu on Unsplash This is a guest post written by a 58 year old single brother in Christ who knows the pain of desiring to be married and knows the healing and blessing God can bring as He transforms our attitudes – and here he is talking about...
A Guy Wants Me to Be in an Inappropriate Relationship with Him

A Guy Wants Me to Be in an Inappropriate Relationship with Him

Sometimes, we think we can’t be firm or drop contact because we would be rude or we would hurt a guy’s feelings. But if a man is so disrespectful that he tries to manipulate us into an inappropriate romantic/sexual relationship and he doesn’t respect...
Stop Watching Football and Spend Time with Me! – SKIT

Stop Watching Football and Spend Time with Me! – SKIT

My latest skit video on Youtube. This one is about 6 minutes. First I share some destructive approaches to trying to get our men to give us more attention. This was the old me. These were the things I did for a long time, not realizing how much I was sabotaging the...
Strong Relationships Do Not Happen By Accident

Strong Relationships Do Not Happen By Accident

Photo by Omar Lopez on Unsplash Strong relationships seem to happen magically on movies and in romantic novels sometimes. But the truth is that strong relationships are built. Whether it is a dating relationship, a friendship, a family relationship, a marriage, or...
Real Hope

Real Hope

Photo by Mira Kemppainen on Unsplash We all (men, women, children, everyone) begin this journey broken and hurting. We have been hurt by other people. We have been hurt by things that happened when we were growing up. We have been hurt by the world. We have been hurt...
Am I His Prosecuting Attorney?

Am I His Prosecuting Attorney?

Me in 2005 – 3 years before God opened my eyes MY OLD WAYS Ugh. This describes me for so long in our relationship. I would often decide we had an issue. I would think nonstop about it all day – determining all the questions I would ask Greg so I could...