6 Reasons NOT to Criticize His Family

6 Reasons NOT to Criticize His Family

Note – Whenever I talk about dating/courting on my site, I am writing for women who love Jesus Christ wholeheartedly and want to live under His Lordship. And I am writing for those who date men (if they choose to date/court) who want to live wholeheartedly for...
Do You Measure Love – or Enjoy It?

Do You Measure Love – or Enjoy It?

Photo by patricia serna on Unsplash Reminder – I am writing for women who are seeking to live for Christ as Lord and who, if they are dating/courting, are only dating/courting men who are seeking to live for Christ as Lord. Of course, if you are not dating or...
Curing My Compulsion to Control – Part 2

Curing My Compulsion to Control – Part 2

We are continuing a series that started earlier this winter: The Pain That Pushes Us to Try to Control The Cure for My Compulsion to Control – Part 1 Once I see that God is God and I am not and I begin to rebuild my thinking on His Word and truth alone, I am...
The Painful Past Behind a Compulsion to Control

The Painful Past Behind a Compulsion to Control

In my experience with women who feel they have to be in control of situations and other people, there is usually some level of trauma or hurt in her past. The level of trauma can vary. But usually something happened that caused her, as a young girl, to develop the...
Stop Watching Football and Spend Time with Me! – SKIT

Stop Watching Football and Spend Time with Me! – SKIT

My latest skit video on Youtube. This one is about 6 minutes. First I share some destructive approaches to trying to get our men to give us more attention. This was the old me. These were the things I did for a long time, not realizing how much I was sabotaging the...
Am I His Prosecuting Attorney?

Am I His Prosecuting Attorney?

Me in 2005 – 3 years before God opened my eyes MY OLD WAYS Ugh. This describes me for so long in our relationship. I would often decide we had an issue. I would think nonstop about it all day – determining all the questions I would ask Greg so I could...