The Painful Past Behind a Compulsion to Control

The Painful Past Behind a Compulsion to Control

In my experience with women who feel they have to be in control of situations and other people, there is usually some level of trauma or hurt in her past. The level of trauma can vary. But usually something happened that caused her, as a young girl, to develop the...
A Guy Wants Me to Be in an Inappropriate Relationship with Him

A Guy Wants Me to Be in an Inappropriate Relationship with Him

Sometimes, we think we can’t be firm or drop contact because we would be rude or we would hurt a guy’s feelings. But if a man is so disrespectful that he tries to manipulate us into an inappropriate romantic/sexual relationship and he doesn’t respect...
Stop Watching Football and Spend Time with Me! – SKIT

Stop Watching Football and Spend Time with Me! – SKIT

My latest skit video on Youtube. This one is about 6 minutes. First I share some destructive approaches to trying to get our men to give us more attention. This was the old me. These were the things I did for a long time, not realizing how much I was sabotaging the...
Am I His Prosecuting Attorney?

Am I His Prosecuting Attorney?

Me in 2005 – 3 years before God opened my eyes MY OLD WAYS Ugh. This describes me for so long in our relationship. I would often decide we had an issue. I would think nonstop about it all day – determining all the questions I would ask Greg so I could...