When You Are Not Interested in a Man Who Is Interested in You

When You Are Not Interested in a Man Who Is Interested in You

  I think a lot of this will apply even with unbelieving men – but I especially want to focus on how we can handle turning down true Christian men who are interested in us. This is a BIG issue. It is a sensitive and painful one – on both sides –...
"When Do I Feel More Secure in the Relationship?"

"When Do I Feel More Secure in the Relationship?"

  This is the last question that this precious single sister in Christ asked me: 3. When does it switch? Is there a moment when you feel slightly more secure and able to “relax” in the security of your relationship? My man is a great guy but I do wonder what it...
When a Guy Is Being Completely Inappropriate

When a Guy Is Being Completely Inappropriate

AN ACQUAINTANCE, COWORKER, CLASSMATE, or STRANGER: If a guy you are not even in a relationship with is asking you for naked pictures or casual sex, here are my thoughts: Yes, we can treat men (and women) with respect, honor, dignity, grace, and the love of God. We can...
When He Walks Away

When He Walks Away

There seems to have been a rash of break ups lately. 🙁 How my heart aches for anyone who is experiencing that kind of intense pain and grief. In this post, I am addressing couples who were not yet married. (I have a similar post for wives whose husbands want to...
A Concerned, Heartbroken Mama's Perspective

A Concerned, Heartbroken Mama's Perspective

From a Christian mother: Last year, my daughter came to her father and I in tears.  She asked if she could finish up her college work from home. We wanted her to stay at the state university where she was, but after she convinced us that she felt God was calling her...