Don’t Purposely Provoke a Man

Don’t Purposely Provoke a Man

Sometimes when we women are upset, we may feel so hurt that we think things like: I want him to hurt as much as I hurt. I want him to show that he is upset, too. He doesn’t look as upset as I feel, so I am going to push him to be as angry as I am right now. If...
How Do I Stop Responding Negatively in the Moment?

How Do I Stop Responding Negatively in the Moment?

Let’s imagine a scenario together: You were looking forward to seeing your man after work. He had set up a date for tonight and you were so excited to get to share some time together after a couple of weeks of hardly seeing each other. You text him at work...
Keep Your Dignity in Front of Your Man

Keep Your Dignity in Front of Your Man

If you are seeking to live for Christ and you are dating a guy who lives for Christ – there will be plenty of opportunities, even for believers, to offer grace to one another. You may mess up at times. He may mess up at times. Especially when one of you is...
“There’s This Guy I Like…”

“There’s This Guy I Like…”

I am writing for women who are seeking to follow Christ as Lord wholeheartedly and who desire to only have a relationship that would honor Christ with a man who is seeking Christ as Lord wholeheartedly. Thanks for understanding. Sometimes, when we are interested in a...
It’s Wrong for Men – but Is It Okay for Women?

It’s Wrong for Men – but Is It Okay for Women?

We all know that it is wrong for a man to hit a woman, to throw something at her, to threaten to harm her, to scream at her, to cuss her out, to verbally/emotionally abuse her, to belittle her, or to take advantage of her in some way. Those things are just not...
He Wants to Be Your Hero

He Wants to Be Your Hero

There is a desire in a spiritually, emotionally healthy man to be the hero for a woman who will truly admire him for his character, his Christlikeness, his words, his actions, and his abilities. Women encouraging men to be heroes is different from control or...