I Like to Be in Control

I Like to Be in Control

    By a single sister in Christ. I’m so thankful for her willingness to share: WHO IS YOUR MASTER? For months this question has run through my mind daily and hourly. If I am being honest, sometimes it runs thru my mind much more than I care to admit....
Should I Ever Share My Concerns with My Man?

Should I Ever Share My Concerns with My Man?

Yep. (I write from a slant of having been a disrespectful, controlling, Type A, perfectionistic, outspoken, go-getter kind of woman. This post may best fit women who are approaching relationships from this same slant. My prayer is that it might be a blessing to...
A Call to Prayer for Ourselves

A Call to Prayer for Ourselves

Most of us, even those of us who claim Christ, are living in spiritual poverty, and we don’t even realize it. We have the truth in our hands, but we are not living out God’s Word and seeking Him passionately above all else. We are operating in our own...
The Answer to All of Your Problems as a Single Person

The Answer to All of Your Problems as a Single Person

A brother in Christ shared this with me and has given me permission to share with you. I think this is some POWERFUL stuff right here, sisters and brothers! Imagine an old wagon wheel with all the spokes going out–the spokes represent all the HUGE piles of problems...
Unlearning the Ungodly Example of a Controlling, Disrespectful Mother

Unlearning the Ungodly Example of a Controlling, Disrespectful Mother

  Unfortunately, some of us learned to be controlling and disrespectful by the poor examples of our mothers. If we have witnessed a dominant, type-A, perfectionistic, manipulative, overly emotional, resentful, bitter, controlling, fearful, anxious, disrespectful...
What Are Your Boundaries with Men?

What Are Your Boundaries with Men?

This is a guest post by a single sister in Christ who is about 30 years old whose walk with the Lord I greatly admire: Dating can be a challenge for us single gals. Many of us have read quite a bit about being a respectful wife. We’ve read how to deal with our past....
"Why Doesn't My Man Appreciate My Helpful Suggestions?"

"Why Doesn't My Man Appreciate My Helpful Suggestions?"

  If a man has been feeling quite disrespected, he may be particularly sensitive to a woman’s unsolicited advice and suggestions. When a man feels truly respected, he is usually much more open to a woman’s ideas, but women may want to learn how to...