When I know what my responsibilities are and what his responsibilities are—our relationship can grow strong.
Most women long for a strong, beautiful romantic relationship with a special man. If you are a follower of Jesus, you may desire a godly relationship with a man who loves Jesus as much as you do. The problem is, something sneaky can easily trip you up and cause you to miss out on your… Continue reading The One Biggest Key to A Healthy Romantic Relationship
Many of us are in love with the idea of one perfect soul mate, but could this mindset be sabotaging our real life romantic relationships?
Photo by Seth Macey on Unsplash Almost every woman experiences this at some point or another with her boyfriend, fiance, or husband. Your man is busy with other things and you really want to connect with him. Sometimes he may not have a choice about how busy he is due to work, a crisis, an… Continue reading “My Man Doesn’t Spend Enough Time with Me!”
Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash A cheerful heart is good medicine. Prov. 17:22 My husband, Greg, has always known how to make me laugh. Ever since the night we first met when I was 15 and he was 16. His sense of humor and wit were some of the things that attracted me… Continue reading Humor Builds Relationships and Attraction
Photo by Chris Karidis on Unsplash This verse below is about married women, but it applies to single women in relationships, as well. In every relationship, we are either building up or tearing down. We are either speaking death or speaking life. Here, I am specifically writing for women who desire to follow Christ wholeheartedly… Continue reading 21 Ways to Destroy Trust in Your Relationship
Photo by Warren Wong on Unsplash Just as a reminder, there are certain things that are attractive to godly men and certain things that are unattractive to them. Some things are general and apply to all men who are sincerely following Christ as Lord. Some things are more individual. Today, let’s imagine a scenario where… Continue reading 21 Tips – When You Would Like a Certain Guy to Ask You Out
Sometimes, we think we can’t be firm or drop contact because we would be rude or we would hurt a guy’s feelings. But if a man is so disrespectful that he tries to manipulate us into an inappropriate romantic/sexual relationship and he doesn’t respect our “no,” his feelings are the LEAST of our concerns! Let’s… Continue reading A Guy Wants Me to Be in an Inappropriate Relationship with Him
My latest skit video on Youtube. This one is about 6 minutes. First I share some destructive approaches to trying to get our men to give us more attention. This was the old me. These were the things I did for a long time, not realizing how much I was sabotaging the very intimacy I… Continue reading Stop Watching Football and Spend Time with Me! – SKIT
Photo by Andrew Robles on Unsplash As women try to understand how men think, there is a danger sometimes that we may develop a skewed understanding or maybe a caricature kind of picture. Because we are not men, we depend on men or other sources to help us understand men. We hear messages like: Men… Continue reading All Guys Are Not Animals!
Ladies, This is another one of those topics where the key is balance. It is entirely possible to be way too talkative. It is also entirely possible to be way too quiet. Of course, what you talk about or avoid talking about also matters. When there are many words, sin is unavoidable, but the one… Continue reading Am I “Too Chatty” with My Guy?
Photo by Mark Rabe on Unsplash I have been thinking about the days leading up to the time of the Great Tribulation a lot lately. The “birth pangs” sure have been coming very quickly that Jesus described would happen before the church is raptured. One particular scripture passage keeps coming to my mind is about… Continue reading “Have Nothing to Do with Such Men”
You have a gift – given to you by the Lord. Some women almost never use this special gift. Others share it generously with those around them almost all the time. It may seem like a small thing. But it is one of the most powerful ways you can bless others. Your beautiful, glorious smile!… Continue reading Your Most Powerful Feminine Asset
I am writing for women who are seeking to follow Christ as Lord wholeheartedly and who desire to only have a relationship that would honor Christ with a man who is seeking Christ as Lord wholeheartedly. Thanks for understanding. Sometimes, when we are interested in a godly guy, we may feel intimidated, fearful, or paralyzed. That… Continue reading “There’s This Guy I Like…”
Many of us hurt so much with people who are hurting. I know I do! When someone comes to us with their relationship problems or spiritual problems, we want to help. We want to see them feel better ASAP. We want to comfort them, sympathize, and be a good friend. It is may not a… Continue reading “A Guy Comes to Me for Spiritual Advice a Lot”
A recent pic of Amanda. I appreciate her writing this guest post for us! LOOKS AREN’T EVERYTHING! Ladies, if you are single and you want to be married some day, please hear what I have to say about the issue of modesty and how we appear, especially in a setting of Christian men. When I… Continue reading One Reason Christian Guys Weren’t Interested in Me – a Guest Post
A guest post by Satisfied Wife who has been married for two years now and in whom God has been working mightily over this past year to open her eyes to things to which she had been blind. She has repented and allowed God to begin to transform her in powerful and beautiful ways. I am honored… Continue reading “Learn from My Mistakes About Ignoring ‘Red Flags’” – A Guest Post
Some people believe that platonic friendships can exist – some don’t. Either way, we need to have ways of relating to men who are unavailable to us that honor Christ. 1 Timothy 5:1-2 contains instructions for a young pastor – but I think we could also learn from this passage: Do not rebuke an older… Continue reading Being Friends with a Guy Who Has a Girlfriend, Is Married, or Is an Unbeliever
FROM A READER (A SINGLE WOMAN) – I appreciate her allowing me to share! I don’t know if this question has come up, but I realize that the more I learn about respect, submission, admiration of men (single, godly men), I realize that the changes taking place in me also get the attention of other… Continue reading “Other Women Get Angry When I Respect Men”
A guest post by Lee Ann – a Christian single woman in her early 30s: Recently I told you about the modesty challenge and what I learned while doing it. Today, I would like to share some extremely valuable information. Respect, femininity, and modesty are powerful tools. I pray that we use these tools to… Continue reading A “Heads Up” for the Ladies about Respecting Men and Dressing Modestly