What If the Guy I Am Interested in Doesn't Have a Spiritual Vision and Plan for His Life? How Can I Follow His Lead?

What If the Guy I Am Interested in Doesn't Have a Spiritual Vision and Plan for His Life? How Can I Follow His Lead?

(I am always assuming that you and the guy you are dating/courting are both fully committed to Christ as Lord of  everything in your lives. There should be fruit from God’s Spirit in both of your lives (Galatians 5:22-23). There should be nothing that either of...
The Tragedy of the "Hook Up" Culture

The Tragedy of the "Hook Up" Culture

  For those who are unfamiliar with this term – “hooking up” means having sex with someone you may not even really know, with “no strings attached.” i.e.: “We just met today, but let’s hook up later tonight.” I know...
Should I Ever Share My Concerns with My Man?

Should I Ever Share My Concerns with My Man?

Yep. (I write from a slant of having been a disrespectful, controlling, Type A, perfectionistic, outspoken, go-getter kind of woman. This post may best fit women who are approaching relationships from this same slant. My prayer is that it might be a blessing to...
What Are Your Boundaries with Men?

What Are Your Boundaries with Men?

This is a guest post by a single sister in Christ who is about 30 years old whose walk with the Lord I greatly admire: Dating can be a challenge for us single gals. Many of us have read quite a bit about being a respectful wife. We’ve read how to deal with our past....
"Why Doesn't My Man Appreciate My Helpful Suggestions?"

"Why Doesn't My Man Appreciate My Helpful Suggestions?"

  If a man has been feeling quite disrespected, he may be particularly sensitive to a woman’s unsolicited advice and suggestions. When a man feels truly respected, he is usually much more open to a woman’s ideas, but women may want to learn how to...
"When Do I Feel More Secure in the Relationship?"

"When Do I Feel More Secure in the Relationship?"

  This is the last question that this precious single sister in Christ asked me: 3. When does it switch? Is there a moment when you feel slightly more secure and able to “relax” in the security of your relationship? My man is a great guy but I do wonder what it...